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I hate divorce

Marie Hillman • Feb 29, 2016

This post is a little more personal than most, but here goes – I am a member of a Bible study. We are currently studying the […] The post I hate divorce appeared first on Hillman Law Firm.

This post is a little more personal than most, but here goes – I am a member of a Bible study. We are currently studying the gospel of Matthew. The amount I am learning about my faith inspires me. Learning and sharing with this group of ladies truly is my favorite time in my week. It brings me joy. I don’t miss. I am awake and aware and just soaking as much in as I can.

This week we got to Chapter 19 and Jesus’ teaching on divorce. I knew it was coming. Yuck – some tough stuff. I was nervous about delving into this subject because not only am I divorced, but I am a divorce lawyer. Divorce is what I do.

While discussing, we were guided to the book of Malachi. In Malachi 2:16 it reads: “‘I hate divorce,’ says the LORD God of Israel.” Those are very strong words that I had to let sink in. Then it hit me – I HATE DIVORCE TOO!!!! I am actually on same page with God here. I hate what divorce did to my own life and family. I HATE what it does to other people and their families. It is bomb in your life and nothing is ever, ever the same – and don’t get me started on how it effects kids, just too sad. Suffering abouds here.

The reality of our lives though is that divorce happens. I call it the three “A”s – Addiction, Adultery, Abuse. I HATE those things too, and they are rampant in our society and they destroy marriages, relationships and lives.

I am here to help those going through a divorce with strength, knowledge and compassion, however I just have to tell everyone: I am a divorce lawyer, and I hate divorce.

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