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Your divorce is NOT a DIY project

Marie Hillman • Jan 18, 2016

I will be the first person to jump into a conversation about do it yourself projects. I am a DIY queen. In the past 6 months […] The post Your divorce is NOT a DIY project appeared first on Hillman Law Firm.

I will be the first person to jump into a conversation about do it yourself projects. I am a DIY queen. In the past 6 months I have refinished three pieces of furniture, made ornaments for my tree and built my own outside fire pit. Pinterest and the internet are full of inspirational ideas and instructions.

I do however know that some things should NOT be done by oneself. I do not try to do plumbing or electrical work. I do not cut my own hair. (Did that as a young person and not good.) I do not make my own medical diagnosis (WebMd is scary.) I would also advise everyone NOT to do their own divorce – just don’t do it. We offer a flat fee option for those who want to bypass some drama and get a divorce efficiently and still protect their interests. This is a time when you need good advice about the procedure and its ramifications. I have had several clients who have come to me after they purchased and tried an online divorce kit. They sometimes bought the wrong kit, didn’t understand the wait times or proper timing of the filings; or worse, filed the wrong thing. Termination of the community is also a very important issue that needs to be discussed with an attorney.

I actually sat in court last week and watched as a woman pleaded before the judge crying for her divorce to be finalized but was denied because she had filed the paperwork incorrectly and in wrong time frame.  It was so frustrating and sad and it did not have to be that way.

So ……..“Yes” to making your own Ugly Christmas Sweater and “NO” to doing your own divorce.

Call us.

Disclaimer:  The information contained in this article is for general information purposes only. Nothing in this article is or should be considered legal advice. The information in this article is not intended to create an attorney-client relationship, and viewing or receipt of information from this article does not create an attorney-client relationship.

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