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Navigating Divorce During the Holidays

Sep 30, 2021
The holidays are supposed to be a time of joy and celebration, but when you're going through a divorce they can feel like the most difficult time of year. Whether this is your first holiday season in the midst of a divorce or you've been separated for years, it's important to know how to navigate these once-joyous occasions in order to keep things as lighthearted as possible.

Here are a few quick tips for co-parenting during the holidays:
  • Get specific about your co-parenting plan, especially when it comes to pick-up and drop-off times
  • Sit down and talk with your children about what is to come
  • Plan new traditions for the future
  • Rely on the support of family and friends
It is not easy to co-parent, regardless of the time of year--though one will truly be tested during holidays. Missing out on Christmas or ringing in New Year alone can take a tough toll and deprive you of some much-needed family togetherness with your children. Every parent taking part in the holidays should communicate and be sure to plan ahead! Planning an approach towards these special occasions without getting too emotional would ease their entire experience overall by knowing what's expected going forward like traditions shared between families etcetera.

For example, school events and prearranged holiday celebrations can be fun experiences but can quickly turn sour if unexpected situations arise. Be clear with the other parent about who will be attending, especially the time schedule. The fewer the surprises the better when emotions are still raw. Try to put kids' emotions and needs first.

Co-parenting during the holidays can be a challenge. It's important to prioritize your children and their needs. Try to keep your own negative emotions to yourself as it will only hurt them if they see your distress. Remember that co-parenting is an ongoing process that requires patience on both sides of the equation; it will require time and effort, but it will be worth it in the long run!

For more information on co-parenting and other family law topics please feel free to contact us at (985) 302-0813 or fill out our online form by clicking here.

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