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Preparing for a divorce? A few recommendations from me…….

Marie Hillman • Feb 23, 2018

Some people know a divorce is on the horizon. They feel it, or want it, and have the wherewithal to take a few steps to prepare […] The post Preparing for a divorce? A few recommendations from me……. appeared first on Hillman Law Firm.

Some people know a divorce is on the horizon. They feel it, or want it, and have the wherewithal to take a few steps to prepare for it. Others may be completely blindsided by their divorce (like me) – this little post is not as much for you, but if you can stop crying for a few minutes you can help yourself too.

1) Get a handle on your finances. Know your debt and all sources of income of your spouse. Find out about investments and savings that may exist. Make copies of paystubs, credit card statements, tax returns, etc… What are your monthly expenses? Tuition? How much will you need to live alone? Start paying attention.

2) Start thinking about where you will live and custody options for children. Are you the primary caretaker of kids? Can you stay in the house? Does the house need to be sold? Start looking at temporary housing solutions. Somebody must move out.

3) Rely on very close friends and family for support and advice. When the time is right, confide in a few close friends. Let people help you. This is not going to be easy and is no time for pride. You are going to need help and support from those who love you. Consider talking to a professional therapist as well.

4) Schedule a consultation with an attorney. Most family lawyers charge a small consult fee. For about $150 you can get advice about your specific situation. You can identify what your legal needs are and the process to move forward. You will gain some understanding of what to expect and this will alleviate some of the fear and better prepare you.

Know that there is life on the other side of divorce – and it can be a better, happier life too! You have to get through it first though. If you or someone you know is considering a divorce, please have them contact me for a consultation. marie@hillmanplc.com. Please share.

Disclaimer: The information contained in this article is for general information purposes only. Nothing in this article is or should be considered legal advice. The information in this article is not intended to create an attorney-client relationship, and viewing or receipt of information from this article does not create an attorney-client relationship.

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